Uncomfortable realities about life and people — 1. Never argue in public Agree to keep your problems private. People love relationship drama and will only make things worse, twisting the truth and judging without knowing the whole story. Don’t let them interfere in your personal affairs. Keep it private and stay in control. 2. Assume that people will never change Their pace of learning is too small.

Navigating hierarchy and emotional dynamics in new environments — Whether you’re meeting new people, starting a new job, or moving out, you’ve been told this: “Do your best.” So you’ve worked a little longer, socialized a little more, did everything a little better. For what? Poor recognition and disdain. The Corporate Game There is a distinction to be made between you and…

Why sharing your knowledge can be a waste of time and how to provide valuable advice instead — Generosity leads you to believe sharing your experiences is valued. But here’s the thing: Unsolicited advice is as useless as stirring hot air. Nobody learns. You waste your time. You waste people’s time. Here’s a better way. Think about activists who approach you on the street asking for donations. They…

How Victor Lustig exploited it to sell the unsellable — April 1925, 5 men are gathered in a lounge at the luxurious Crillon Hotel in Paris. They’ve secretly been selected to discuss the greatest deal of the 20th century… The sale of the Eiffel Tower. Victor Lustig, a high-ranking official says: “As you may have read in the newspapers, the…

Revealing the dark tactics used in wars and times of peace — Disclaimer. I am not advocating the use of these methods here. My aim is to reveal the dark tactics used in their most hardcore forms during wars, as well as milder ones in times of peace. Any similarity with recent events would ONLY be coincidental… of course. Let’s begin. 1. Threats Cultivate…

How Rasputin crafted his legend and rose to power — Cyanide-proof, Charismatic, Clairvoyant, Healer. Most see a man sent by god or possessed by the devil. I see a manipulator on his way from a poor Siberian peasant to the most influential man in Russia. How? By arousing a sense of admiration in his prey. The Legend You may not know his…

The real reason for their misfortune — We all know that person who always seems to get into trouble. Sure, It might seem funny or saddening at first glance, but don’t be fooled. Unlucky people are more toxic than you think. Here’s the real reason for their misfortune and why you should avoid them. 1- They Are Unreliable First, let’s get…

How Lincoln used image-making to build a cult of personality and win the presidency — Crafting your public image isn’t just a cheap tactic for politicians. It’s a powerful skill opening up a world of opportunities. Yet, most still rely on their raw selves to win. Learn key cult-building lessons from the greatest leader in US history: Abraham Lincoln. Quick Lincoln Biography For those who are unfamiliar with…

Those who say otherwise are either enslaved by a perception that weakens them or they’re manipulating you — An introduction to Nietzsche’s philosophy: How to recognize the nihilists and claim your will to power. Friedrich Nietzsche is often quoted, but rarely read. Yet, his books contain some of the most compelling ideas in the entire history of philosophy. …